It is important to know when we can give attention and when we need attention. Often we are inclined to give, give, and give without ever asking anything in return. We may think that this is a sign of generosity or even heroism. But it might be little else than a proud attitude that says: "I don't need help from others. I only want to give." When we keep giving without receiving we burn out quickly. Only when we pay careful attention to our own physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual needs can we be, and remain, joyful givers.
There is a time to give and a time to receive. We need equal time for both if we want to live healthy lives.
Henri Nouwen
Thus begins my week of prayer.
Nice kick in the pants that.
:)
If the shoe fits ...
ReplyDeleteBut you didn't refuse to accept this gift of time and space to recover. That is a healthy sign.
Hi
ReplyDeleteLove this quotation - can you cite the actual source for me?
Thanks
M
Marie, it's taken from Henri's book "Bread For The Journey."
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